The Annual Matchmaking
Experience for Malayalees

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Houston, TX

Fall in MalayaLove

Our Journey

Four Cities, One Community

FIM 1.0 in Dallas, TX

FIM 1.0

Dallas, TX

September 9, 2023

FIM 2.0 in Brooklyn, NY

FIM 2.0

Brooklyn, NY

June 1, 2024

FIM 3.0 in Chicago, IL

FIM 3.0

Chicago, IL

September 20, 2025

FIM 4.0 in Houston, TXApplications Open

FIM 4.0

Houston, TX

October 17, 2026

452

Attendees

73%

Had a Match

Who Shows Up

Everyone who has attended across all three events, combined, side by side.

Men

208 attendees

30.6

Avg. Age

67%

Open to Any Denomination

130 of 193 reported

Age

Age 24: 2
24
Age 25: 9
25
Age 26: 11
26
Age 27: 21
27
Age 28: 24
28
Age 29: 22
29
Age 30: 21
30
Age 31: 20
31
Age 32: 15
32
Age 33: 19
33
Age 34: 16
34
Age 35: 8
35
Age 36: 11
36
Age 37: 3
37
Age 38: 3
38
Age 39: 3
39

Top Locations

New York, USA
54 · 26%
Illinois, USA
42 · 20%
Texas, USA
40 · 19%
Florida, USA
10 · 5%
Pennsylvania, USA
9 · 4%
Georgia, USA
8 · 4%
New Jersey, USA
7 · 3%

Denominations

192 of 208 reported

Catholic: 60 (31%)Orthodox: 36 (19%)Mar Thoma: 22 (11%)Non-Denominational: 18 (9%)Pentecostal: 17 (9%)Jacobite: 16 (8%)Knanaya: 15 (8%)CSI: 4 (2%)Not Religious: 2 (1%)Brethren: 1 (1%)Other: 1 (1%)31%19%11%9%9%8%8%
Catholic6031%
Orthodox3619%
Mar Thoma2211%
Non-Denominational189%
Pentecostal179%
Jacobite168%
Knanaya158%
CSI42%
Not Religious21%
Brethren11%
Other11%

Top Professions

191 of 208 reported

Software Engineer
20 · 10%
Pharmacist
10 · 5%
Consultant
9 · 4%
Doctor
7 · 3%
Accountant
6 · 3%
Nurse
6 · 3%
Engineer
4 · 2%

Zodiac

150 of 208 reported

Aries: 12 (8%)
Ari8%
Taurus: 12 (8%)
Tau8%
Gemini: 9 (6%)
Gem6%
Cancer: 14 (9%)
Can9%
Leo: 14 (9%)
Leo9%
Virgo: 15 (10%)
Vir10%
Libra: 9 (6%)
Lib6%
Scorpio: 9 (6%)
Sco6%
Sagittarius: 8 (5%)
Sag5%
Capricorn: 15 (10%)
Cap10%
Aquarius: 24 (16%)
Aqu16%
Pisces: 9 (6%)
Pis6%

Women

244 attendees

29.1

Avg. Age

241 of 244 reported

57%

Open to Any Denomination

133 of 233 reported

Age

241 of 244 reported

Age 23: 4
23
Age 24: 12
24
Age 25: 21
25
Age 26: 13
26
Age 27: 25
27
Age 28: 24
28
Age 29: 26
29
Age 30: 32
30
Age 31: 24
31
Age 32: 26
32
Age 33: 21
33
Age 34: 10
34
Age 35: 2
35
Age 36: 1
36

Top Locations

Texas, USA
58 · 24%
New York, USA
49 · 20%
Illinois, USA
41 · 17%
Pennsylvania, USA
13 · 5%
Florida, USA
11 · 5%
New Jersey, USA
10 · 4%
Georgia, USA
9 · 4%

Denominations

233 of 244 reported

Catholic: 74 (32%)Mar Thoma: 39 (17%)Orthodox: 35 (15%)Non-Denominational: 34 (15%)Knanaya: 19 (8%)Jacobite: 14 (6%)Pentecostal: 9 (4%)Brethren: 3 (1%)CSI: 3 (1%)Not Religious: 2 (1%)Other: 1 (0%)32%17%15%15%8%6%
Catholic7432%
Mar Thoma3917%
Orthodox3515%
Non-Denominational3415%
Knanaya198%
Jacobite146%
Pentecostal94%
Brethren31%
CSI31%
Not Religious21%
Other10%

Top Professions

234 of 244 reported

Nurse
30 · 12%
Pharmacist
17 · 7%
Doctor
12 · 5%
Consultant
7 · 3%
Teacher
6 · 2%
Engineer
6 · 2%
Software Engineer
5 · 2%

Zodiac

175 of 244 reported

Aries: 14 (8%)
Ari8%
Taurus: 14 (8%)
Tau8%
Gemini: 16 (9%)
Gem9%
Cancer: 15 (9%)
Can9%
Leo: 15 (9%)
Leo9%
Virgo: 14 (8%)
Vir8%
Libra: 14 (8%)
Lib8%
Scorpio: 13 (7%)
Sco7%
Sagittarius: 13 (7%)
Sag7%
Capricorn: 20 (11%)
Cap11%
Aquarius: 15 (9%)
Aqu9%
Pisces: 12 (7%)
Pis7%

Where Attendees Come From

A Nationwide Cohort

Pick an event to see the geographic distribution of attendees, broken out by men and women. “All Events” aggregates across every cohort with data.

hawaiiHIalaskaAKflorida: 21 attendees (M 10 · W 11)FL10 · 11michigan: 11 attendees (M 5 · W 6)MI5 · 6maineMEnew-york: 103 attendees (M 54 · W 49)NY54 · 49pennsylvania: 22 attendees (M 9 · W 13)PA9 · 13virginia: 3 attendees (M 2 · W 1)VA2 · 1west-virginiaWVohio: 4 attendees (M 3 · W 1)OH3 · 1indianaINillinois: 83 attendees (M 42 · W 41)IL42 · 41wisconsinWInorth-carolina: 10 attendees (M 2 · W 8)NC2 · 8tennessee: 2 attendees (M 1 · W 1)TN1 · 1arkansasARmissouri: 2 attendees (M 1 · W 1)MO1 · 1georgia: 17 attendees (M 8 · W 9)GA8 · 9south-carolina: 2 attendees (M 1 · W 1)SC1 · 1kentuckyKYalabamaALlouisianaLAmississippiMSiowaIAminnesota: 1 attendee (M 1 · W 0)MN1 · 0oklahoma: 2 attendees (M 1 · W 1)OK1 · 1texas: 98 attendees (M 40 · W 58)TX40 · 58new-mexico: 2 attendees (M 1 · W 1)NM1 · 1kansasKSnebraskaNEsouth-dakotaSDnorth-dakotaNDwyomingWYmontanaMTcolorado: 1 attendee (M 0 · W 1)CO0 · 1idahoIDutahUTarizona: 2 attendees (M 1 · W 1)AZ1 · 1nevadaNVoregon: 1 attendee (M 0 · W 1)OR0 · 1washington: 5 attendees (M 3 · W 2)WA3 · 2california: 13 attendees (M 6 · W 7)CA6 · 7new-hampshireNHvermontVTconnecticut: 2 attendees (M 0 · W 2)CT0 · 2new-jersey: 17 attendees (M 7 · W 10)NJ7 · 10delawareDEmaryland: 5 attendees (M 0 · W 5)MD0 · 5washington-dc: 8 attendees (M 3 · W 5)DC3 · 5massachusetts: 4 attendees (M 2 · W 2)MA2 · 2rhode-islandRI
MenWomenState with at least one attendee452 attendees across all events
Also fromOther3·3Toronto, Canada1·3London, UK1·0

Our History and Mission

At Fall in MalayaLove (FIM) (commonly miscalled “Fall in Malayalam”), our mission is to bring together the Malayalee Christian community by providing a platform for individuals with shared cultural backgrounds to discover potential romantic relationships. This objective guides our efforts in organizing in-person speed dating events, matchmaking activities, and other related initiatives and strategies.

We hosted our inaugural matchmaking event on September 9, 2023 in Dallas, TX. Participants flew in from over 47 U.S. cities to attend. The success of our first event garnered several press features throughout Malayalam news media, including the Malaya Manorama.

Our 2nd event was held on June 1, 2024 in Brooklyn, NY and our 3rd event was held on September 20, 2025 in Chicago, IL.

And the best part? These nights have turned into lifetimes: three marriages that we know of so far, with a fourth engagement on the way 👀 (announcement still TBD). Meet some of the couples on our success stories page.

Want the details? See photos, cohort stats, and recaps on our events page, or read some of our 64 reviews.

To stay informed on upcoming events, follow us on Instagram at @fallinmalayalove.

As Seen In

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Success Stories

Real connections that started at FIM. We couldn't be happier for these couples.

And here's what dozens of other attendees had to say.

Read Our Testimonials

Event Highlights

Icebreaker Games

You'll be nervous, makes sense. So we'll lighten the mood and calm those nerves with some super fun icebreaker activities.

1:1 Speed Dating

Timed rounds to get to know each person. All pairings are based on dating preferences from your application.

Dinner

Buffet-style dinner so you can eat as much (or as little) as your nerves allow.

Drinks

Full service bar all night.

Live Entertainment

Reality TV-esque live entertainment during dinner for the audience's enjoyment. At FIM 3.0, we hosted a live blind date on stage. The crowd loved it.

Raffles & Prizes

The classic Malayalee activities for a fun night.

💘

Malayalee Cupid

See Past

Every year, a mysterious Cupid arrives to spread the love. Nobody knows who it is before the event.

After Party

After 4-5 hours of all the festivities, we bring in a DJ to party it up for 2 more hours. This is included in the price of your ticket.

Sunday Brunch

Optional next-day brunch to keep the vibes going and build on the connections from the night before.

Founders

Matt George

Matt George

CEO & Co-Founder

Matt George is the comedian behind the satire comedy account @mallutrump. Fueled by a passion for community engagement, he co-founded Fall in MalayaLove after recognizing the strong desire from the Malayalee Christian community for community-centric dating. He's also a legaltech entrepreneur, software engineer, currently running injuria.ai and thatcarhitme.com to help victims of car accidents. He has raging adhd.

Julie George

Julie George

COO & Co-Founder

Julie George (no relation) co-founded FIM to curate dating experiences and opportunities exclusively for the Malayalee Christian community, helping bridge the gap between geographical distances and online dating fatigue. She previously hosted The Brown Girl Podcast, currently on an indefinite hiatus and bringing it back remains filed under “someday” in her brain. She is a proud plant mom to 14 houseplants (she would have more but her husband imposed a plant ban) and also new mom to her son Zayden, who currently occupies most of her time, camera roll, and heart.

The Team

Since launching our inaugural event, the FIM team has expanded to include talented individuals who share our vision for building community.

Sharon Sam

Sharon Sam

Director of Sponsorships

Zeby Poycattle

Zeby Poycattle

Director of Technology

Bincy Thomas

Bincy Thomas

Director of Creative

Jemi Thomas

Jemi Thomas

Social Media Czar

Want to see everyone who helped make our events happen? Meet our past volunteers

Want to join them? Apply to volunteer for FIM 2026

The People Behind FIM

Volunteering

We couldn't do this without an amazing team of volunteers from across the community who dedicate their time, energy, and heart to bring every event to life.

FIM 3.0 volunteer team

FIM 3.0

Chicago, IL

20 volunteers · 2025

FIM 2.0 volunteer team

FIM 2.0

Brooklyn, NY

19 volunteers · 2024

FIM 1.0 volunteer team

FIM 1.0

Dallas, TX

14 volunteers · 2023

We're still looking for day-of volunteers to help bring FIM 4.0 to life in Houston on October 17th.

Apply to Volunteer

Introducing

ishtam

Can't make it to an in-person event? We built something for you. ishtam is a weekly blind video dating experience for Malayalee Christians.

No App Needed

Works on any browser, any device. Just your phone number.

Curated Matches

No swiping. We match you based on what actually matters.

Weekly Video Dates

We text you the details. Just show up and be yourself.

Try ishtam

Simple. Intentional. No swiping, no stress.

Sponsors

Fall in MalayaLove is made possible by the generous support of our sponsors. Interested in partnering with us for our upcoming event?

Become a Sponsor

FAQs

FIM is short for Fall in MalayaLove, the annual matchmaking experience for Malayalee Christians. Within the community, the event is often referred to simply as "FIM" or an "F.I.M event."

Still have questions?

Hear it straight from people who've been there. Read real testimonials from past FIM attendees.

Read Testimonials